How to make a Janel

Ingredients:
5 parts success
3 parts beauty
5 parts family
5 parts love

Method:
Stir together in a glass tumbler with a salted rim. Top it off with a sprinkle of fitness and enjoy!



What about me?

love prints & handy crafts,
used to live in tokyo for a couple of yrs
however do not speak japanese,

eat only the breast meat,
do not eat abalone,
love black/white vinegar & gyoza,
pick out onions & pickles from my food,

have 'negro' curly hair,
play the electone,
love the rain,
prefer the night to day,

squeeze my toothpaste from its end,
wear my retainers at night,
love romantic comedies.


My nature

quiet
independent
logical
unemotional
ingenious
innovative
curious
driven to increase competence
casual
adaptive
nonconforming
unpredictable
detached
reasonable
balanced
avoids aggression and violence
tolerant
calm
well-developed sense of justice
empathetic
free of jealousy
loves to read


How to love me


♥ Respect my privacy and independence.

♥ Appreciate my competencies and wealth of creative ideas.

♥ Encourage me to spend time alone.

♥ Don't talk too much or force an emotional conversation before I'm ready.

♥ Try not to nag me about being messy or meeting deadlines.

♥ Allow me plenty of space to pursue my interests in depth and time to think things through.

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i havent written for quite a few days so i decided to at least jot sth down today. anyway, this week has been going on for a long one. every second seems like eternity. time just passes too slowly but i still feel ancient. haa. oh well, it's only another 2 more months and everything would seem entirely different. people's attitude would change about you, about themselves and of all things, my own life would make a turn. i wouldnt have much idea about how i would be feeling but it seems like i wouldnt change. haa. now i feel as though i have that attitude of living for the next second, just thinkin about what i'm supposed to do the next minute of sth. there's no guarantee that i would succeed in what i want to accomplish, be it one hour later or my future. it's good to some extend if i just think about what to do just next rather than pondering worrily about what would happen if 'this' or 'that' were to happen. for me, i just take things as it comes & it really makes me a happier person sometimes. hopefully it works for people who are troubled by their own thoughts too. i've told most of my friends to be a happier person and not think about things too much. there's this saying - 'think on the bright side of life' and i dont really agree. maybe it's just me, but i feel that the more i think about the postive sides, the negative sides would start to disagree in my brain and it makes my thoughts go hay-wire. so my personal solution is not to think about things. oh yes, there's this really funny thing, i dont really know if it's me only, but there are many people who would ask me,"What are you thinking about?" - i guess my facial expression showed i'm in deep thoughts. but whenever i am asked this question, i would say,"I'm not thinking about anything." and that is the truth, serious. sometimes people misunderstand me and wonder why i dont share my feelings with them, as in i dont trust them. but really, i'm not thinkin about anything. mostly i would just go in a daze, and it happens occassionally for me (unfortunately). ok. too chatty today. cya~ haa.