let me take you on the ride of my life
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How to make a Janel

Ingredients:
5 parts success
3 parts beauty
5 parts family
5 parts love

Method:
Stir together in a glass tumbler with a salted rim. Top it off with a sprinkle of fitness and enjoy!



What about me?

love prints & handy crafts,
used to live in tokyo for a couple of yrs
however do not speak japanese,

eat only the breast meat,
do not eat abalone,
love black/white vinegar & gyoza,
pick out onions & pickles from my food,

have 'negro' curly hair,
play the electone,
love the rain,
prefer the night to day,

squeeze my toothpaste from its end,
wear my retainers at night,
love romantic comedies.


My nature

quiet
independent
logical
unemotional
ingenious
innovative
curious
driven to increase competence
casual
adaptive
nonconforming
unpredictable
detached
reasonable
balanced
avoids aggression and violence
tolerant
calm
well-developed sense of justice
empathetic
free of jealousy
loves to read


How to love me


♥ Respect my privacy and independence.

♥ Appreciate my competencies and wealth of creative ideas.

♥ Encourage me to spend time alone.

♥ Don't talk too much or force an emotional conversation before I'm ready.

♥ Try not to nag me about being messy or meeting deadlines.

♥ Allow me plenty of space to pursue my interests in depth and time to think things through.




deux:






trois:
Monday, August 23, 2004 9:44 PM
i remember some things about hy telling me. we went out the other day & we were like critics everywhere we went. most were critisism though. most about why the ugly ones would always and up getting the better looking partner. she came up with a conclusion & it's definitely relevant and correct! it goes this way- 'the better looking ones are more self-conscious and feel that they aren't good enough for a good looking partner. they end up picking his/her partner whose looks aren't that good, somewhat below their actual standard.' as for my own interpretation, the better looking girls whom i know, no good-looking guys 'dare' to get together with them in case of being not able to be up to her standard. these friends of mine end up getting kind of 'deperate' & in turn just accept any 'not good-looking' kind of male that comes by. in actual life & fact, there are certainly more than examples which are as plain as a naked eye can see. it all seems rather true, don't you think? *laughs. life goes on pretty intersting day by day.