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How to make a Janel

Ingredients:
5 parts success
3 parts beauty
5 parts family
5 parts love

Method:
Stir together in a glass tumbler with a salted rim. Top it off with a sprinkle of fitness and enjoy!



What about me?

love prints & handy crafts,
used to live in tokyo for a couple of yrs
however do not speak japanese,

eat only the breast meat,
do not eat abalone,
love black/white vinegar & gyoza,
pick out onions & pickles from my food,

have 'negro' curly hair,
play the electone,
love the rain,
prefer the night to day,

squeeze my toothpaste from its end,
wear my retainers at night,
love romantic comedies.


My nature

quiet
independent
logical
unemotional
ingenious
innovative
curious
driven to increase competence
casual
adaptive
nonconforming
unpredictable
detached
reasonable
balanced
avoids aggression and violence
tolerant
calm
well-developed sense of justice
empathetic
free of jealousy
loves to read


How to love me


♥ Respect my privacy and independence.

♥ Appreciate my competencies and wealth of creative ideas.

♥ Encourage me to spend time alone.

♥ Don't talk too much or force an emotional conversation before I'm ready.

♥ Try not to nag me about being messy or meeting deadlines.

♥ Allow me plenty of space to pursue my interests in depth and time to think things through.




deux:






trois:
Friday, January 7, 2005 2:27 PM
Lipton Quality Black tea and the usual Lipton tea taste exactly the same. The diffrence in their name & packaging only? What the.. Anyway, Lipton's Grey Earl tea's unique. okay. enough of tea talking.


Prior to my last entry, we've decided to just go for supper after their campfire. Hopefully JY gets to meet Vincent (i haven't seen him in ages!) too. Alright, meeting my baby, JY & her baby, together with the other peeps. (Enough of the consensual thing about us four) Had enough about thinking things through.


JY made me realise something. She thinks faster than I do. I told her about the shocking news about honestly between the last couple & i made a wrong decision. I'm so glad she was in time to stop me from doing a silly thing. Imaging having someone you used to be with (and you still fancy him), is now with another girl (even though it's consensual) and they both buy you a gift for your birthday. This sounds like a drama but yea, it's real. Tough. I'm gonna respect that girl. Respect everyone & be true to myself (even if it takes leaving him or dumping). No one's satisfied anyway. Things may turn out to be a blessing in disguise.


I tell you, fookin webmessenger is giving kim problems & it's ALSO giving me the exact same PROBLEM now. Oh yea. Talking about him, we had lunch together, with ken & ted! after lunch we just walked around, and, what they call it, 'suay' as in bad luck in hokkien- fancy bumping into my female colleagues. it wasn't a bad thing nor a good thing. it was just that when they came back into the office, they were all like, "ho-ho!" & "hiak hiak"s, with all the grins and cheesy faces. gulp. 3guys & a girl. okayyyyy... they're just my great brudders.. cool it ladies..ugh...


btw, there's this male colleague by the name of PS and he's seriously a kay-poh. always walking to & fro and looking at what i'm doing. asking so many questions. Mike's really rushing for the photos at Chijmes. really gotta remember to copy them into a floppy. tata!