let me take you on the ride of my life
un:
How to make a Janel

Ingredients:
5 parts success
3 parts beauty
5 parts family
5 parts love

Method:
Stir together in a glass tumbler with a salted rim. Top it off with a sprinkle of fitness and enjoy!



What about me?

love prints & handy crafts,
used to live in tokyo for a couple of yrs
however do not speak japanese,

eat only the breast meat,
do not eat abalone,
love black/white vinegar & gyoza,
pick out onions & pickles from my food,

have 'negro' curly hair,
play the electone,
love the rain,
prefer the night to day,

squeeze my toothpaste from its end,
wear my retainers at night,
love romantic comedies.


My nature

quiet
independent
logical
unemotional
ingenious
innovative
curious
driven to increase competence
casual
adaptive
nonconforming
unpredictable
detached
reasonable
balanced
avoids aggression and violence
tolerant
calm
well-developed sense of justice
empathetic
free of jealousy
loves to read


How to love me


♥ Respect my privacy and independence.

♥ Appreciate my competencies and wealth of creative ideas.

♥ Encourage me to spend time alone.

♥ Don't talk too much or force an emotional conversation before I'm ready.

♥ Try not to nag me about being messy or meeting deadlines.

♥ Allow me plenty of space to pursue my interests in depth and time to think things through.




deux:






trois:
Wednesday, March 16, 2005 6:46 PM
where do i start?
i really have no idea.
but one definite thing was that i really had lots of fun.


i had my nails done for 150baht.
which is around S$6.00.

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somewhat cool huh. (and how can i forget 'CHEAP'!)


you know what?
you could just go check out my sister's blog to find out more.
it's kinda difficult for me to compile everything i did the past three days.
lols. but of course i couldn't forget the clothes i bought.


i was thinking about how wonderful it would be if my boyfriend, my best friend & her boyfriend were to go on a trip overseas together. perfect foursome.


well, it was an awesome holiday.
bought some gifts for a number of you.
you should have seen most thai shop assistants being so courteous & patient.
EXTREMLY unlike those in hong kong actually.

there was this girl who was sooooo patient with my very indecisive mother.
it was just a watch costing 199baht ( S$8 or so) and my mom was trying out so many of 'em.
almost 20 minutes of standing there deciding.
in the end my mom decided not to get a single one.
an eight dollar watch had to make her decide for such a long while.
how could i forget what thailand is known for?
duh.
gays/lesbians.

anyway, let's get back to some other lovely stuff.
hmm...
if i were a guy, i would probably be really interested in aeroplanes/ jets.
i love the take off!


oh well, haven't seen many of you for a long while.
hope to get out for dining/shopping/movies really soon!


okay, here's the last topic for today.
quoted by ahmad :

'pretty girls are insecure and bored'

let us take a look at his logic behind this...


1. pretty girls depend only on thier looks.
2. they are usually being acknowledged or praised by their looks.
3. if they receive many praises & treats by guys already, they get bored.
4. finally, their lives depend on thier looks ONLY.
5. so every minute passes & they grow older & uglier
6. therfore, they get this feeling of insecurity & of no one wanting them anymore.

i agree on 'pretty girls are insecure and bored',
not only of those factors listed above, but also...
they always have got to go an extra mile to find out of her man is true to her.
not all for her looks, as a flower vase or even stupidly, a show-off to his friends.
it's nice to hear compliments from your friends, like how pretty your girlfriend / partner is. but if every human being is so much like that, i would rather be an alien.

to be honest, most men should really go to hell.
plainly...
the one who doesn't give a damn about you.
the one who acts too macho in front of you.
the proud one.
the insensitive one.
the over controlling one.
the easily jealoused one.
the one who acts too kindly in front of you ONLY.
and definitely the abusive one.
& those step-over-women men!

actually, to sum it all up, women are probably very much a complicated lot.
if you claim you understand women,
try us. (except for those bimbotic ones who bring down our name)
well,
i don't seem to understand myself at times.
so try to understand me.
and a disappointing thing is most of my previous boyfriends didn't seem to understand me.
anyway, i haven't found that one & only who understands me more than i understand myself.
life goes on...
i'll wait for this loving guy.

ciao!