How to make a Janel

Ingredients:
5 parts success
3 parts beauty
5 parts family
5 parts love

Method:
Stir together in a glass tumbler with a salted rim. Top it off with a sprinkle of fitness and enjoy!



What about me?

love prints & handy crafts,
used to live in tokyo for a couple of yrs
however do not speak japanese,

eat only the breast meat,
do not eat abalone,
love black/white vinegar & gyoza,
pick out onions & pickles from my food,

have 'negro' curly hair,
play the electone,
love the rain,
prefer the night to day,

squeeze my toothpaste from its end,
wear my retainers at night,
love romantic comedies.


My nature

quiet
independent
logical
unemotional
ingenious
innovative
curious
driven to increase competence
casual
adaptive
nonconforming
unpredictable
detached
reasonable
balanced
avoids aggression and violence
tolerant
calm
well-developed sense of justice
empathetic
free of jealousy
loves to read


How to love me


♥ Respect my privacy and independence.

♥ Appreciate my competencies and wealth of creative ideas.

♥ Encourage me to spend time alone.

♥ Don't talk too much or force an emotional conversation before I'm ready.

♥ Try not to nag me about being messy or meeting deadlines.

♥ Allow me plenty of space to pursue my interests in depth and time to think things through.

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after work we had a few rounds of pool.
now i'm back home eating pizza!
growing sideways.
how pathetic.


Facts about women:
Women can talk longer with less effort than can men..

Facts about men:
When a man buys flowers, if ever, he tends to pick red..


Love vs Lust
Definitions

Love - is the unconditional acceptance of all things as they are.
To alter or expand them by contributing to them in a loving way creates blessings.
To alter, judge or limit them by force or fear creates burdens which you must carry,
experience or learn from.

Lust - is wanting something that you can't have,
taking something that isn't yours,
(through acquisition, force, coercion or manipulation),
and believing in something that isn't loving,
(like domination, control or sacrifice).

Key Point

When you love someone or something, there's a natural fit
that fully utilizes your gifts and passions.
When you're lusting after someone or something,
it exposes a need, a wanting, as it's not a perfect fit for you.
Use this distinction when you're making choices...do you want it
because you absolutely love it, or do you want it because you want it?


LOVE IS... a committment.
LUST IS... a feeling.


oh well, it's my last day at simei's outlet.
i'm getting an afternoon treat!
yay!


time for bed!
goodnight!