How to make a Janel

Ingredients:
5 parts success
3 parts beauty
5 parts family
5 parts love

Method:
Stir together in a glass tumbler with a salted rim. Top it off with a sprinkle of fitness and enjoy!



What about me?

love prints & handy crafts,
used to live in tokyo for a couple of yrs
however do not speak japanese,

eat only the breast meat,
do not eat abalone,
love black/white vinegar & gyoza,
pick out onions & pickles from my food,

have 'negro' curly hair,
play the electone,
love the rain,
prefer the night to day,

squeeze my toothpaste from its end,
wear my retainers at night,
love romantic comedies.


My nature

quiet
independent
logical
unemotional
ingenious
innovative
curious
driven to increase competence
casual
adaptive
nonconforming
unpredictable
detached
reasonable
balanced
avoids aggression and violence
tolerant
calm
well-developed sense of justice
empathetic
free of jealousy
loves to read


How to love me


♥ Respect my privacy and independence.

♥ Appreciate my competencies and wealth of creative ideas.

♥ Encourage me to spend time alone.

♥ Don't talk too much or force an emotional conversation before I'm ready.

♥ Try not to nag me about being messy or meeting deadlines.

♥ Allow me plenty of space to pursue my interests in depth and time to think things through.

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ever felt everything in life is wrecked?
grumble. moan. whine.
seriously reckon everyone feels this way;
just a matter of frequency.

so, often feel torn? go see the doc. duh, depression.

hmmm...
ever realise that men can just go through a loophole,
leaving you there to wonder what went wrong in the first place?
men don't tell you that you're not good enough for them.
or just a simple, "I don't fancy you."
they drop you much OBVIOUS hints.
such as...
they don't call you.
they don't reply your messages.
they don't ask you out.
they come out with as many excuses ap.
(as men state them as 'reasons')

the female gets the point, unfortuantely...
a typical girl would just try her luck and hold on.
BUT the right choice is pretty much like the toughest choice sometimes.
simply accept - HE IS NOT THAT INTO YOU.
leave before he does. because when you say men have pride, we do too.

i know...
at times you suddenly feel...
isolated.
loveless.
unsociable.
reclusive.

at other times you feel...
cherished.
loved.
adored.
worshipped.

also at times...
emotionless.
blank.
uninspired.
pointless.


feelings...
creates parts to our daily lives; of every individual.


someone who sees a huge green meadow feels it's so very bare.
someone else however feels it's such a captivating scenery.
when we choose the things that we like, we tend to be glad.
when we are left with no other options, life is like futile.
then again, could we just forsake the things we prefer?
and try to make the best out of the current options available?
acceptance.
appreciation.
admiration.

it's difficult. it's easy too.
enphasizing on how empty life is, is pointless.
perhaps finding the path to sinless & untroubled ways of living is a much better choice.


i'm glad i know the route right now.
smile.


adieous.