How to make a Janel

Ingredients:
5 parts success
3 parts beauty
5 parts family
5 parts love

Method:
Stir together in a glass tumbler with a salted rim. Top it off with a sprinkle of fitness and enjoy!



What about me?

love prints & handy crafts,
used to live in tokyo for a couple of yrs
however do not speak japanese,

eat only the breast meat,
do not eat abalone,
love black/white vinegar & gyoza,
pick out onions & pickles from my food,

have 'negro' curly hair,
play the electone,
love the rain,
prefer the night to day,

squeeze my toothpaste from its end,
wear my retainers at night,
love romantic comedies.


My nature

quiet
independent
logical
unemotional
ingenious
innovative
curious
driven to increase competence
casual
adaptive
nonconforming
unpredictable
detached
reasonable
balanced
avoids aggression and violence
tolerant
calm
well-developed sense of justice
empathetic
free of jealousy
loves to read


How to love me


♥ Respect my privacy and independence.

♥ Appreciate my competencies and wealth of creative ideas.

♥ Encourage me to spend time alone.

♥ Don't talk too much or force an emotional conversation before I'm ready.

♥ Try not to nag me about being messy or meeting deadlines.

♥ Allow me plenty of space to pursue my interests in depth and time to think things through.

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i was at city harvest church yesterday.
with nixi etc.

sy rogers was there to talk about LOVE.
love is acceptance.
love is accountability.
love is affirmation.

1. we always want to be accepted as we were not made to hear rejection.
2. we always have to account for things that we do & say.
3. we always have doubts & insecurity and long to be affirmed of our love.

possessions come & go.
we rejoice with those who rejoice.
we grieve with those who grieve.

we hunger for love.
but love has to be more than feelings.
as feelings come & go.

husband & wife, have feelings for each other all the time?
they are times when they have got nothing to talk about to each other.
but love is designed to test on our acceptance, accountability & affirmation.

talk is cheap.
our actions have to be sincere.

when things are not assured...
one's insecured.
one's doubtful.
one's deserted.

everyone needs a cry.
i had mine at church.

sy rogers also said, "no words make any pain stop. our injuries hurt us & we run to someone not to make the pain stop, but to be convinced we are being loved. "

you know what?
dreams are effecient.
i now know how i see this person in my eyes.

some issues never do change.
talk is cheap.

goodnight.