How to make a Janel

Ingredients:
5 parts success
3 parts beauty
5 parts family
5 parts love

Method:
Stir together in a glass tumbler with a salted rim. Top it off with a sprinkle of fitness and enjoy!



What about me?

love prints & handy crafts,
used to live in tokyo for a couple of yrs
however do not speak japanese,

eat only the breast meat,
do not eat abalone,
love black/white vinegar & gyoza,
pick out onions & pickles from my food,

have 'negro' curly hair,
play the electone,
love the rain,
prefer the night to day,

squeeze my toothpaste from its end,
wear my retainers at night,
love romantic comedies.


My nature

quiet
independent
logical
unemotional
ingenious
innovative
curious
driven to increase competence
casual
adaptive
nonconforming
unpredictable
detached
reasonable
balanced
avoids aggression and violence
tolerant
calm
well-developed sense of justice
empathetic
free of jealousy
loves to read


How to love me


♥ Respect my privacy and independence.

♥ Appreciate my competencies and wealth of creative ideas.

♥ Encourage me to spend time alone.

♥ Don't talk too much or force an emotional conversation before I'm ready.

♥ Try not to nag me about being messy or meeting deadlines.

♥ Allow me plenty of space to pursue my interests in depth and time to think things through.

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i had thought i would be spending today alone at home. (again)
then jeff rang me up.
the next you know,
he, ch, marc & i went to suntec.
for an obvious reason - the adidas jacket!
then it poured at 4.30pm.

it's been pouring.
i simply love all sorta rain.

basically, it's great hangin' out with friends.
i got a question.
will you get tired of being held down by a partner?
probably seek another person as a partner.
but, whatever...
cus we singles are having the singles party.

alright, i love 'no working' & 'no schooling' life,
which makes it NOW.
perfect!

i've got all the time in the world.
i've got so many friends for everything.
i just love having plans.

be it sudden plans like today,
or long planned outings like sentosa, etc.
it's SO not bad being with different people.

oh yes, i suddenly thought of blogging because...
i seriously gotta know...
do you HATE guys who constantly act cute.

you know,
sometimes i feel it's a mistake knowing some people.
sometimes i feel i should accept them for who they are.

but most times,
i feel damn irritated.
so damn frustrated even.
men can be so much like darlings.
men can be so much like fools.

DON'T MAKE A FOOL OUT OF YOURSELVES.

mm...
i'm currently terribly disappointed with some people.
i'll just pray they'll understand cherishing people for long.
we could say, "I'll cherish you no matter what."
and the next minute, you let him/her down.
it's some kinda bad behaviour,
or perhaps worse, a bad habit.

thinking about it,
i know i've let some people down.
i know some people have let me down.
grass is more greener on the other side - to a certain extend.

i tell myself, "do not feel that you are letting yourself down or you are to be blamed."
i believe in my own qualities.
i don't blame no one.