a flower is an educated weed

un:

How to make a Janel

Ingredients:
5 parts success
3 parts beauty
5 parts family
5 parts love

Method:
Stir together in a glass tumbler with a salted rim. Top it off with a sprinkle of fitness and enjoy!

What about me?

love prints & handy crafts,
used to live in tokyo for a couple of yrs
however do not speak japanese,

eat only the breast meat,
do not eat abalone,
love black/white vinegar & gyoza,
pick out onions & pickles from my food,

have 'negro' curly hair,
play the electone,
love the rain,
prefer the night to day,

squeeze my toothpaste from its end,
wear my retainers at night,
love romantic comedies.

My nature

quiet
independent
logical
unemotional
ingenious
innovative
curious
driven to increase competence
casual
adaptive
nonconforming
unpredictable
detached
reasonable
balanced
avoids aggression and violence
tolerant
calm
well-developed sense of justice
empathetic
free of jealousy
loves to read

How to love me

♥ Respect my privacy and independence.

♥ Appreciate my competencies and wealth of creative ideas.

♥ Encourage me to spend time alone.

♥ Don't talk too much or force an emotional conversation before I'm ready.

♥ Try not to nag me about being messy or meeting deadlines.

♥ Allow me plenty of space to pursue my interests in depth and time to think things through.

deux:

quizzes to come Wednesday, January 17, 2007 11:49 AM

since everyone's doing this, i was thinking why not give it a shot.
haha, so here goes.

You Are a Normal Girl

You are 50% Good and 50% BadSure you've pulled some bad girl stunts in your past.But these days, you're (mostly) a good girl.

of course i'm normal.

haha.

duh.

Both of You Wear the Pants

You and your guy seem to have stuck the perfect power balance.It's not that you don't disagree - it's just that you've learned how to compromise well.You're both mature enough to know that you can't always get your way...And usually, you're both adult enough to reach an agreement - even if that sometimes means giving in a little.

i like what it reads in the above quiz.

well, something i love about zach is that he always asks how i feel.

i don't like people who makes me feel terrible

and leave me to settle my own emotions.

zach always asks what i have to say,

and i have almost no problem giving him honest answers.

there are some guys who do wrong things,

and when their girlfriends tell 'em what they know and feel,

the guys would make a huge fuss and in turn the blame it on the girl herself.

some girlfriends of mine have no chances in saying their true feelings,

and they feel they cannot tell their other half certain things.

i know how that feels because i once had a boyfriend who was like that as well.

he loved himself more than anything else.

but right now, i guess i'm really fortunate to have zach who allows us to

compromise with each other on a balance.

compromising is all about both parties,

and whenever one has something to say,

the other party should hear what he/she has to say.

and say the truth, not an exaggeration of your feelings.

it's important to put yourself into his/her shoes,

because many people listen just for the sake or listening,

and the poor party will feel it's useless to say what they really feel.