How to make a Janel

Ingredients:
5 parts success
3 parts beauty
5 parts family
5 parts love

Method:
Stir together in a glass tumbler with a salted rim. Top it off with a sprinkle of fitness and enjoy!



What about me?

love prints & handy crafts,
used to live in tokyo for a couple of yrs
however do not speak japanese,

eat only the breast meat,
do not eat abalone,
love black/white vinegar & gyoza,
pick out onions & pickles from my food,

have 'negro' curly hair,
play the electone,
love the rain,
prefer the night to day,

squeeze my toothpaste from its end,
wear my retainers at night,
love romantic comedies.


My nature

quiet
independent
logical
unemotional
ingenious
innovative
curious
driven to increase competence
casual
adaptive
nonconforming
unpredictable
detached
reasonable
balanced
avoids aggression and violence
tolerant
calm
well-developed sense of justice
empathetic
free of jealousy
loves to read


How to love me


♥ Respect my privacy and independence.

♥ Appreciate my competencies and wealth of creative ideas.

♥ Encourage me to spend time alone.

♥ Don't talk too much or force an emotional conversation before I'm ready.

♥ Try not to nag me about being messy or meeting deadlines.

♥ Allow me plenty of space to pursue my interests in depth and time to think things through.

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things haven't been going on too well for me.


i'll be telling a story,
where 'X' denotes a group member of mine.

everyone was sent an email regarding our report and presentation due in 4 days (monday)
by friday, they were either called up or smsed to check their mail.
X told me she was sick and didn't check her mail.

being sick does not imply you're so fuckin' weak and cannot check your mails.

things had to be sent to me by saturday night.
X called me at 3am (sunday) and asked me how she should go about completing her part.
she somehow realised i might be asleep and awoken by her fucking call.
a good thing i just got home or i'd be fuming if anyone wakes me up from my sleep.

she said she would send me by morning.
duh.
i said alright.

i got up from my slumber in the morning and checked my mail.
i got nothing from her.

i decided to give her another fucking chance till i get home after dinner.
then the others finally sent me what they have done.
and still no news from X.

one of them called her up and they didn't get along too well i guess.
i decided to ring her up myself.
it rang but didn't get through for she turned her mobile off.
such a darn bitch i gotta say.
every five minutes i dialed that disgusting number.

we were so pressed for time and she turned her darn phone off?
then i finally managed to get through and heard a soft voice.
"sorry, i fell asleep"
"WHAT!!! WHAT DO YOU THINK YOU SHOULD BE DOING NOW? HAVE YOU DONE YOUR PART? GET ONLINE NOW!"
"okay"

fuming i was to have such a fuckin' conversation with X.

in 10min she wasn't online and i decided to ring her up the second time for she could have fallen asleep again.
just as i was about to dial, she came online.
she'd better count herself lucky she didnt hear my voice for the second time.

all she did was scan some magazines,
or rather her friend did 'em.
if she was present in front of me i'd have slapped her.

people like X are just plain disgusting.

the worst thing?
X is supposedly the team leader.

just sickening.

obviously things didn't change for the better.
i was horrified by her dishonesty.
a good thing i ended the presentation without hiccups.
and that was the last lesson of the module.

i pray i don't see her again.