How to make a Janel

Ingredients:
5 parts success
3 parts beauty
5 parts family
5 parts love

Method:
Stir together in a glass tumbler with a salted rim. Top it off with a sprinkle of fitness and enjoy!



What about me?

love prints & handy crafts,
used to live in tokyo for a couple of yrs
however do not speak japanese,

eat only the breast meat,
do not eat abalone,
love black/white vinegar & gyoza,
pick out onions & pickles from my food,

have 'negro' curly hair,
play the electone,
love the rain,
prefer the night to day,

squeeze my toothpaste from its end,
wear my retainers at night,
love romantic comedies.


My nature

quiet
independent
logical
unemotional
ingenious
innovative
curious
driven to increase competence
casual
adaptive
nonconforming
unpredictable
detached
reasonable
balanced
avoids aggression and violence
tolerant
calm
well-developed sense of justice
empathetic
free of jealousy
loves to read


How to love me


♥ Respect my privacy and independence.

♥ Appreciate my competencies and wealth of creative ideas.

♥ Encourage me to spend time alone.

♥ Don't talk too much or force an emotional conversation before I'm ready.

♥ Try not to nag me about being messy or meeting deadlines.

♥ Allow me plenty of space to pursue my interests in depth and time to think things through.

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i can be very selfish at times,
and with my low agreeableness,
perhaps my self interest comes first, and others come later, if any at all.
still, i may very well be having an endless supply of oomph right now -- and it should be a darned good thing, no?

like right now,
i'd very much love to steamroll anyone who happens to disagree with me.
and yet they say i don't have to advertise it with that much of a gusto.
fine.

there wouldn't be many days for me to stay home 24hrs already,
esp when school's reopening,
so i've decided to quit a late night out on friday.
and be idle and read this month's reader's digest till i fall asleep.
thus after a pouring day at work this afternoon,
i took the bus back since
the rain had also made me reluctant enough to quit shopping for the moment.

i get naturally gloomy when i deliberately turn on some sad songs.
and i like that feeling once in a while.
we can never be on cloud nine all the time.
still,
i can't say i envy people who are constantly happy,
given that i don't feel too comfortable with those who are overly happy.
nor can i say i like being around sad folks,
in view of the fact that they can be so stubborn and irritatable.

i'm generally broad minded when it comes to new things,
but if something crosses a particular line, there's no way of approving it.
something too wacky gets me goddamn suspicious.

perhaps it's all grievences of mine that scare aways readers.
then again,
you could prove to me it's sane feeling blissful every second of one's life.
and i shall admit defeat.

au revoir.