How to make a Janel

Ingredients:
5 parts success
3 parts beauty
5 parts family
5 parts love

Method:
Stir together in a glass tumbler with a salted rim. Top it off with a sprinkle of fitness and enjoy!



What about me?

love prints & handy crafts,
used to live in tokyo for a couple of yrs
however do not speak japanese,

eat only the breast meat,
do not eat abalone,
love black/white vinegar & gyoza,
pick out onions & pickles from my food,

have 'negro' curly hair,
play the electone,
love the rain,
prefer the night to day,

squeeze my toothpaste from its end,
wear my retainers at night,
love romantic comedies.


My nature

quiet
independent
logical
unemotional
ingenious
innovative
curious
driven to increase competence
casual
adaptive
nonconforming
unpredictable
detached
reasonable
balanced
avoids aggression and violence
tolerant
calm
well-developed sense of justice
empathetic
free of jealousy
loves to read


How to love me


♥ Respect my privacy and independence.

♥ Appreciate my competencies and wealth of creative ideas.

♥ Encourage me to spend time alone.

♥ Don't talk too much or force an emotional conversation before I'm ready.

♥ Try not to nag me about being messy or meeting deadlines.

♥ Allow me plenty of space to pursue my interests in depth and time to think things through.

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it's uncommon that my family orders delivery,
but yesterday we did, and we had pizza.
first it didn't come pipping hot,
and second, the freaking pizza was pretty difficult to swallow.
the flour was bad, and i mean BAD.
it tasted like dozen times reheated pizza. BLEAH.
i swear i'd never order pizza for a long time, yes a very long time.
or at least, not from them again.

i've been keeping myself busy before school reopens,
before the dued assignments pile up again,
meeting up with friends and attending birthday parties.
just roughly 3 more months and it's going to be my 21st birthday.

i've probably seen enough of disorganised 21st parties,
and that's perhaps why i'm so not into having one for myself.
still, there's a handful who regret not having one, thinking since you only turn 21 once in this lifetime. but that's no excuse 'cus everyone turns 1,2,3,10,20 ONCE in a lifetime too.
i'm probably not one who regrets my decisions in life,
and that would include not celebrating my 21st, which is one trival matter .

i can appreaciate if you have tons of friends and money to invite invite,
and i would gladly help out.
but if you're talking about me organising my own?
perhaps if i'm rich enough to get someone else to organise my event,
maybe like dr. georgia lee's.
okay, that's too much of an aspiration.

i'd be glad enough to be able to turn 21,
for i'm not someone who enjoys parties.
i mean, think about it.
some others would be rejoicing if they were given another day to live.
i thank God that i'm fit as a fiddle, to live each day to its best.
not to grant me some kinda awesome party.

my kind of unforgettable birthday would probably be one that i achieve something.
something that does not include making my friends sit around mingling around in tiny cliques.
something not so paiseh, because when you invite people, they gotta give you hong baos and presents.
i'll spare my family and friends!

as for that something i mentioned?
we'll see (: