How to make a Janel

Ingredients:
5 parts success
3 parts beauty
5 parts family
5 parts love

Method:
Stir together in a glass tumbler with a salted rim. Top it off with a sprinkle of fitness and enjoy!



What about me?

love prints & handy crafts,
used to live in tokyo for a couple of yrs
however do not speak japanese,

eat only the breast meat,
do not eat abalone,
love black/white vinegar & gyoza,
pick out onions & pickles from my food,

have 'negro' curly hair,
play the electone,
love the rain,
prefer the night to day,

squeeze my toothpaste from its end,
wear my retainers at night,
love romantic comedies.


My nature

quiet
independent
logical
unemotional
ingenious
innovative
curious
driven to increase competence
casual
adaptive
nonconforming
unpredictable
detached
reasonable
balanced
avoids aggression and violence
tolerant
calm
well-developed sense of justice
empathetic
free of jealousy
loves to read


How to love me


♥ Respect my privacy and independence.

♥ Appreciate my competencies and wealth of creative ideas.

♥ Encourage me to spend time alone.

♥ Don't talk too much or force an emotional conversation before I'm ready.

♥ Try not to nag me about being messy or meeting deadlines.

♥ Allow me plenty of space to pursue my interests in depth and time to think things through.

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i got the best results this semester,
despite all the horrible workload.

and in addition to that,
life's no longer jam packed with projects and exams.
i must say it's finally tranquil!

so now i'm yearning for a good relaxation theraphy,
shopping is good,
but a spa or a full body massgae sounds more reassuring in terms of unwinding!

about my next rock to step on,
(i feel so tensed already, talking about this matter)
i have decided to continue my studies.
but if you read the disheartening report in the strait times last saturday,
man, is that discouraging.
right, so dragon year people fighting for places.
and now where does it leave me?
i'm in absolutely no position to fight.



also,
i reckon i have not much choice but to obtain a degree
that's associated with the diploma i have now.

it's that sad culture inculcated here,
that in this era, as long as if we don't study as much and as high as we can,
we wouldn't achieve much in society.
probably in years to come,
those who only have diploma certs are not applicable to a lot of jobs.
it's just going to be hard to eradicate all that rooted thinking.

going overseas had never really been one of my options,
because i admit i'm still thing pathetic protected singaporean.
but if i were given the opportunity,
i would take it.
i mean, guts can be built but opportunities shuned would never be back the same again.

i envy carefree people with the passion to obtain their goals,
regardless of setbacks of all forms.
but no one has the right to say that those who have no goals (as yet) are beyond redemption.
i haven't found mine yet too!