How to make a Janel

Ingredients:
5 parts success
3 parts beauty
5 parts family
5 parts love

Method:
Stir together in a glass tumbler with a salted rim. Top it off with a sprinkle of fitness and enjoy!



What about me?

love prints & handy crafts,
used to live in tokyo for a couple of yrs
however do not speak japanese,

eat only the breast meat,
do not eat abalone,
love black/white vinegar & gyoza,
pick out onions & pickles from my food,

have 'negro' curly hair,
play the electone,
love the rain,
prefer the night to day,

squeeze my toothpaste from its end,
wear my retainers at night,
love romantic comedies.


My nature

quiet
independent
logical
unemotional
ingenious
innovative
curious
driven to increase competence
casual
adaptive
nonconforming
unpredictable
detached
reasonable
balanced
avoids aggression and violence
tolerant
calm
well-developed sense of justice
empathetic
free of jealousy
loves to read


How to love me


♥ Respect my privacy and independence.

♥ Appreciate my competencies and wealth of creative ideas.

♥ Encourage me to spend time alone.

♥ Don't talk too much or force an emotional conversation before I'm ready.

♥ Try not to nag me about being messy or meeting deadlines.

♥ Allow me plenty of space to pursue my interests in depth and time to think things through.

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since the path began, i felt like i was in this rut, and it's as terrible as it seems.
but i am beginning to think simpler.
to be bothered with those who bother.
or simply put, i decide whom i want to be bothered with.

i used to try to accomodate,
but now, if things don't work my way,
the cause had jolly well settle its ownself without me lifting a finger.

well, it's easy to tell if one doesn't appreciate you,
and if you're ambitious to change the situation?
mostly, it's a painful process to get that someone to appreciate you.
after one failed attempt, i couldn't be bothered.

along the way,
i guess there is no point in forcing any particular person to appreciate you.
as complicated beings we humans are, people will decide for themselves if they want to appreciate you.

my logic is simple.
i don't bother if you don't.
i'm game.
but i quit when i want to.