How to make a Janel

Ingredients:
5 parts success
3 parts beauty
5 parts family
5 parts love

Method:
Stir together in a glass tumbler with a salted rim. Top it off with a sprinkle of fitness and enjoy!



What about me?

love prints & handy crafts,
used to live in tokyo for a couple of yrs
however do not speak japanese,

eat only the breast meat,
do not eat abalone,
love black/white vinegar & gyoza,
pick out onions & pickles from my food,

have 'negro' curly hair,
play the electone,
love the rain,
prefer the night to day,

squeeze my toothpaste from its end,
wear my retainers at night,
love romantic comedies.


My nature

quiet
independent
logical
unemotional
ingenious
innovative
curious
driven to increase competence
casual
adaptive
nonconforming
unpredictable
detached
reasonable
balanced
avoids aggression and violence
tolerant
calm
well-developed sense of justice
empathetic
free of jealousy
loves to read


How to love me


♥ Respect my privacy and independence.

♥ Appreciate my competencies and wealth of creative ideas.

♥ Encourage me to spend time alone.

♥ Don't talk too much or force an emotional conversation before I'm ready.

♥ Try not to nag me about being messy or meeting deadlines.

♥ Allow me plenty of space to pursue my interests in depth and time to think things through.

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They say follow your heart, but when your heart is in so many pieces. Which way are you to follow?

Bright and sunny day.
Not too warm, just nice with a lil wind.
Good day for alfresco,
good day for people watchin.
A cuppa coffee, newspapers and a muffin.
Great way to start the day.

Beginning to feel positivity,
accepting upcoming changes and ready for adaptation.
well, not puberty, but a transition from school to the real world.
imma be putting in the effort for my last few assessments,
goin with the flow and where the arrow directs me to.

Not a time to be thinkin of being tied down to a partner.
perhaps currently there's more to life than obligations you can choose to have or not have.
yes, selfishly not prepared to share my life with anyone at the moment.

but still am not entirely selfish as i'm certain i want to be living a traditional life,
being somebody's perfect wife and an awesome mother of two smart children.

wanting to grow old with the one i love,
having adorable grandchildren,
what's more to desire in life?
than family and love?

waiting.